Right do you know what the main purpose of this evenings Blog isn't to tell / bore any of you with what i've been up too lately, because to be honest its been pretty much a much of a much - Gym, Seeing my pals, Having a little Drink - generally just being me ...... But its to discuss the fact that the whole Girl Likes Boy, Boy Likes Girl situation seems to have actually lost it's meaning / importance in society today and quite frankly (and i am happy to speak on half of all women here) i am siiiiiiiiiiiiiick of it!
Ok so here's the thing ..... and i am going to put it REALLY simply : Relationships / Dating are Important ...... Games aren't.
In the last few weeks i could real a list as big as my shoe collection of females i know who have (for want of a better word) been mugged off by men ..... And the women that i know believe me are sorts .... proper nice girls (and if i'm completely honest i am going to include myself in this group too) and i am literally sitting here right now wondering what the hell has happened and why does this repeatedly happen to such amazing women.
Weirdly, it all seems to follow the same pattern (i can only assume its because the men want a shag - which boys, seriously if thats what you want, there really is no need to be keen - just be upfront!) you know the bloke is keen, the girl clearly fancies him, blatant severe flirting a date or 3 loads of texting, the odd drunken phone call, affectionate behaviour, none of this getting past 1st base malarky ..... and then BANG ...... SILENCE ....... Anyone care to share the light as to why?!
Of course i am generalising, because thats not textbook ... sometimes theres the ones who promise you dinner and romance when all they want to do is get you naked in their bed ..... note to any woman who has done that before £100 has been spent at a boaty restaurant ...... LEARN FROM IT! Sorry if i sound harsh, but if he expects sex and nothing else, you might aswell get a nice dinner out of it ....... Not that i am condoning this behaviour, but i like most women am sick of being treated in a bad way ......
One of my closest friends was due to be going on a date tomorrow night to a really posh restaurant - his suggestion i might add now isn't going ..... because this 30 year old man has decided since sunday to not call / text or reply to her .... when prior to this he was ringing, texting her practically everyday ..... She met him down the pub last Friday and ended up staying round his where he tried NOTHING on with her and was nothing but a gentleman to her, and since sunday hes completely gone on the missing list ...... Keep Your Poxy Meal MATE! I feel bad for her as he was giving out all the right signals and she wasn't too ott with him, nor was she pushy or asking anything ..... WEIRD ..... men!
Then there's the other few who have seen blokes a few times and both parties clearly like one another, so what happens .... oh yes a nice game of text tennis commences, average game lasting 12 hours ....... I don't get it ..... if you like someone why wait 90734507690746 hours until you text them back?! Again, anyone care to explain it to me .......
Now you would think that the men i am generalising about here were how old .... 18?! No ..... sadly the men i know and my friends are involved with are in the mid-late 20's and early 30's ......
What has actually happened?! Are relationships just not that important anymore, or are we all just on the look out for 'something better' so we keep our options open?! I literally have no clue ..... and nor do i think this is a one way street, because i know a few women who behave like this ...... but seriously I am getting really disillusioned by meeting people, getting involved based on events that happen around me daily to both myself and my friends .....
I went on a brilliant first date last week, with what i thought was one of the nicest men ever ....literally proper keen he was on the text all the time before during and after and then Sunday after he buckled himself he's not so much as bothered with me ....... And sorry but i am not about to go chasing him! I've got too much of a life going on to be doing all that ....... Although Tell me something - do men want to be chased?! Literally i've got no clue, and i know a lot of my friends feel the same ..........
Now don't even get me started on the ones who clearly want to have their cake and eat it, but because they have got morals, they can't do the dirty on the girl they are seeing ...... I admire the honesty there and respect ..... but seriously drop me out! Because it makes it even harder to dislike you, yet makes you seem almost like a model man ...... which techically doesn't exist in my book.
I am sitting here just thinking perhaps this crap internet based world we live in has actually killed the importance of dating and relationships?! because i remember when none of this was around us how much simpler life was ........... If i wanted to play games i'd of been a competitive athlete or something ....... If all men want is a bunk up don't promise us the world .... you really don't need to, be upfront about it, you might be surprised at what you get ...... and if you say your going to go on date 2, or take some amazing girl for dinner, then do it ..... and don't take 4874646868787 hours to ring or text her about it, because women only tend to get in a mood if you break a promise ..... if you haven't said lets go for dinner on friday, then she won't get in a mood ..... it really isn't rocket science you know!
I'm not gonna go on any longer .... i think you get the point i'm trying to make .... and for any amazing men who don't fall into this category, like some of my boy pals .... Sorry i dont mean to offend you - but the women in your lives are VERY lucky to have you!
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